Mga pwedeng idahilan para hindi magbigay ng umento sa mga empleyado:

1. Delay style:
a. I delay sa pamamagitan ng paghingi ng kung anu- anong dokumento.
b. Mag set ng meeting, i- cancel at iresched at i- cancel uli.
c. Iwala ang dokumentong natangap at maghanap ng panibago.
d. Magpagawa ng kung anu- anong bagay para ma divert ang atensyon ng empleyado.

2. Loop hole style:
a. Hanapin ang performance evaluation at hanapan ng butas ang empleyado.
b. Hanapan ng achievents.
c. Magpagawa ng isang bagay na mas lamang ang bulilyaso upang may ibubutas sa empleyado.

3. Empathy style:
a. Mahina ang benta at hindi kumikita ang kumpanya.
b. Papiliin ang empleyado: magbibigay ng increase pagkatapos magsasara ang kumpanya at marami ang mawawalan ng trabaho o manatiling mababa ang sweldo ng marami ang may trabaho.


4. Sympathy style:
a. Sabihing naiintindihan ang kalagayan ng empleyado at magpayo na maghanap na lang ibang trabaho

When It Looks Like You Have Failed By Rev. Robert H. Schuller

Lord, are you trying to tell me something?

For:

Failure doesn't mean I'm a failure.
It does mean I haven't yet succeeded.

Failure doesn't mean I have accomplished nothing.
It does mean I have learned something.

Failure doesn't mean I have been a fool.
It does mean I had enough faith to experiment.

Failure doesn't mean I've been disgraced.
It does mean I dared to try.

Failure doesn't mean I don't have it.
It does mean I have to do something in a different way.

Failure doesn't mean I am inferior.
It does mean I am not perfect.

Failure doesn't mean I've wasted my life.
It does mean I have an excuse to start over again.

Failure doesn't mean I should give up.
It does mean I must try harder.

Failure doesn't mean I'll never make it.
It does mean I need more patience.

Failure doesn't mean you have abandoned me.
It does mean you must have a better idea!

Amen.

The Don't Quit Poem

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

I am a Garbage

I don't know what really happened
And I don't know how it happened
I found myself skint and jobless
More than a year I've been homeless
My clothes are torn and so dirty
I have been hungry and thirsty
I became just like a wild bird
Wandering and not being heard
Waiting for rain to drink water
While the others drink fresh water
I look at the trash curiously
And I dig through it anxiously
Hoping to find something to eat
To survive and stand on my feet
But I still have my king, my Lord My God who blessed me with nature

While my life is a great torture
When others are spoiled in richness
And I am lost in bitterness
Now my friends are the animals
For I have no friends, no rivals
Mice and rats are my family
They dispel my melancholy
Street cats and dogs entertain me
Thus they never hate and blame me
For we share the same bad trash food
Living in the same neighborhood.

You are what you make yourself to be.

You are the books you read, the films you watch, the music you listen to, the people you meet, the dreams you have, the conversation you engage in. You are what you take from these. You are the sound of the ocean, the breath of fresh air, the brightest light and the darkest corner. You are a collective of every experience you have had in your life. You are every single second of every single day.So drown yourself in a sea of knowledge and existence. Let the words run through your veins and let the colors fill your mind until there is nothing left to do but explode.

No answers can be wrong. Inspiration is everywhere. Go out create and share. You are what you make yourself to be.

THE PARADOX OF OUR AGE- The 14th Dalai Lama

We have bigger houses but smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; We have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgement; more experts, but more problems; more medicines, but less healthiness; We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies then ever, but have less communication; We have become long on quantity, but short on quality. These are times of fast foods but slow digestion; Tall men but short character; Steep profits but shallow relationships. It's a time when there is much in the window, but nothing in the room. ============================== very meaningful and worth thinking...

Sudan: A Case of Miscommunication

“Hi Mama.” “Hello darling. Are you having a good time with Daddy?” “Yes Mama. We went to the movies after school yesterday. Mama, can I ask you something?” “Eleanor, the line’s very bad. I can’t hear. Did you say something?” “Yes Mama. I have to do a project for school. About Sudan. Do you know anything?” “What honey? No one is suing your dad. He’s a lawyer. He sues people for a living.” “I know that Mama. I asked about the Sudan.” “Darling I have to go. Your Granma wants to say hello. Love you.” “Eleanor? How’s my little cupcake?”

“Hello Granma. I’m fine. Do you know anything about Sudan?” “Sue and Dan? Of course. But things like that aren’t for little girls’ ears. Lips and kissing and nonsense like that. Where did you hear about them?” “My teacher told me. But I don’t understand Granma. Sudan is a country in Africa.” “Sue and Dan are going to Africa? Oh my! I wonder if Dan’s wife knows. Sweetheart, I have to call Kathy. You must come visit soon. Granma loves you!” “Bye Granma.” “Eleanor? Have you finished on the phone? How’s your mother?” “She’s okay. Daddy? Do you know anything about Sudan?” “How did you find out about that?” “My teacher told me I had to ask my parents about it.” “Really? Well, all I know about it is Dan gave Sue a huge diamond necklace and a bun in the oven, and now Kathy is divorcing him. Very ugly. Sue can barely hold her head up in public now.” “Daddy I’m confused.” “Eleanor, honey; come into the kitchen. I can barely hear you and I need help making supper anyway.” “Coming Daddy.” ================================================= “Well class. Yesterday I told you to go home and find out about different places. Who wants to go first? Dean? Alright come to the front of the class.” “Egypt. Egypt is in Africa. Years and years ago, people built the pyramids there, and the Sphinx and a beautiful lady called Cleo - Cleopatra lived there. Moses was also born in Egypt.” “Thank you Dean. Who’s next? Eleanor?” “Yes Mrs. Williams. My country was the Sudan. I asked my mommy about it first and she said that people sue the lawyers there for a living. Granma wanted to know why you told me about that and said it wasn’t for little girls to know. I think they must do something bad to little girls there. Then my daddy said that the people’s heads always nod because they wear such heavy necklaces. They must have very sore necks. Maybe they make little girls wear really heavy necklaces? And I think there are a lot of people called Sue and Dan there. Daddy said that Sue couldn’t hold her head up in public so she must wear a necklace too. Oh, and they eat buns that they bake in ovens. Mrs. Williams? Are you alright? Your face is all red. Mrs. Williams, why are you snorting like a pig? Mrs. Williams?”

Isang Libong Piso

Isang araw sa paglalakad ni Juan ay nakapulot siya ng isang libong piso. Hindi sya makapaniwala sa napulot. Agad niya itong ibinulsa ng hindi na maagaw pa ng iba. Simula noong araw na yun wala na syang inatupag kundi maglakad ng payuko at umasa ng makakapulot uli na pera. Isang libo...isang libo..isang libo ang lagi nyang sambit. Walang tigil sa paglalakad ng nakayuko at pag- anas ng "isang libo, isang libo, isang libo". Patuloy syang naglakad ng payuko na hindi nya namalayan na hindi na nya napapansin ang kanyang pamilya na nagmamahal sa kanya. Hindi na nya napapansin ang mga kaibigan na nagmamalasakit sa kanya. Hindi na rin nya kilala ang si Jesus na namatay sa para sa kanya. Nawalan na sya ng kapwa. Nasilaw na sya ng isang libong piso. Nalunod na si Juan sa isang basong tubig.

Dumating ang araw na marami na syang isang libong pisong nakita at naipon. Ang isang liboy naging dalawa, tatlo. Ang libo ay naging milyon. Subalit ang kanyang pamilya't kaibigan ay wala na. Nawala na dahil sa milyon.

Wisdom of Wolves by Twyman Towery

The attitude of the wolf can be summed up simply: it is a constant visualization of success. The collective wisdom of wolves has been progressively programmed into their genetic makeup throughout the centuries. Wolves have mastered the technique of focusing their energies toward the activities that will lead to the accomplishment of their goals.

Wolves do not aimlessly run around their intended victims, yipping and yapping. They have a strategic plan and execute it through constant communication. When the moment of truth arrives, each understands his role and understands exactly what the pack expects of him.

The wolf does not depend on luck. The cohesion, teamwork and training of the pack determines whether the pack lives or dies.

There is a silly mind thinking in some organizations, that everyone to be a valuable member, must aspire to be the leader. This is personified by the misguided CEO who says he only hires people who say they want to take his job. Evidently, this is supposed to ensure that the person has ambition, courage, spunk, honesty, drive - whatever. In reality, it is simply a contrived situation, with the interviewee jumping through the boss's hoops. It sends warnings of competition and one-upmanship throughout the organization rather than signals of cooperation, teamwork and loyalty. (One-upmanship is the art or practice of successively outdoing a competitor.)

Everyone does not strive to be the leader in the wolf pack. Some are consummate hunters or caregivers or jokesters, but each seems to gravitate to the role he does best. This is not to say there are not challenges to authority, position and status - there are. But each wolf's role begins emerging from playtime as a pup and refines itself through the rest of its years. The wolf's attitude is always based upon the question, "What is best for the pack?" This is in marked contrast to us humans, who will often sabotage our organizations, families or businesses, if we do not get what we want. (jokester - a person who enjoys telling or playing jokes.)

Wolves are seldom truly threatened by other animals. By constantly engaging their senses and skills, they are practically unassailable. They are masters of planning for the moment of opportunity to present itself, and when it does, they are ready to act.

Because of training, preparation, planning, communication and a preference for action, the wolf's expectation is always to be victorious. While in actuality this is true, only 10 percent of the time (or less), the wolf's attitude is always that success will come - and it does.

Ang Aking Panalangin

Panginoon pagpalain nyo po ako upang makatulong ako sa aking kapwa
Palakihin nyo po ang aking nasasakupan upang marami akong matulungan
Maging mabuting tagasunod nyo po ako upang hindi ako makasakit ng aking kapwa at hindi ako masaktan
Maging halimbawa po sana ako lagi ng inyong pagpapala.

Panginoon huwag nyo po sana akong bibigyan ng malaking bahay kung marami sa aking kapatid ay natutulog sa bahay na may butas na bubungan o sa kalsada na walang tiyak na masisilungan.
Huwag nyo po akong bigyan ng masarap na pagkain kung ang aking kababayan ay nakukutento na sa pagpag o limos ng kapitbahay.
Huwag nyo po ako bigyan ng magagandang damit kung ang aking kababayan ang di makapagpalit ng madungis at iisa nyang kasootan.
Huwag nyo po sana akong bigyan nga magarang sasakyan kung marami sa aking kapatid ang hindi man lang makabili ng pansapin sa kanilang talampakan.
Huwag nyo po sana akong bigyan ng malaking kumpanya kung sarili ko lang ang makikinabang at magpapasasa ng aking kayamanan. Huwag mong itulot na maging kapitalista ako na hindi kayang tugunan ang pangangailangan ng maliit kong manggagawa.

Ang panalangin ko Panginoon ay bigyan mo ko ng tama lang, tama lang para sa aking sarili at pamilya. Tama lang para makatulong ako sa aking kapatid. Makatulong, kesa ako ang tulungan. Ayokong maging mataas dahil baka hindi ko na maabot ang mga nasa ibaba. Ayokong masyado lumayo ang pagitan namin ng aking kapatid na hikahos dahil baka hindi ko na sila maabot. Hayaan mong nararamdaman ko sila para maramdaman kong IKAW ay aking laging kasama.

Success and/or Significance

What is success? Only you can define it in your own life. In my own life, I have attempted to define both Success and Significance.

To me, Success is secular. Significance is spiritual.

It doesn't matter how you define your own spirituality. Spiritual matters are always finer, deeper, and longer lasting than secular matters.

Success focuses on three Fs:

• Fans
• Fame
• Fortune

Success is focused on tasks, even goals.

Significance also focuses on three Fs:

• Faith
• Family
• Friends

But, significance focuses on purpose. Why am I here? What do I do with the talents, experiences and skills that I have? How can I make the world a better place? How do I plant seeds of greatness in the lives of those around me? How do I make an impact in the circles of influence where I find or place myself?

To choose success and significance, you must be a strategic thinker who:

• Has a clear vision of what you want to accomplish
• Develops a solid strategy that answers three questions:
- Who or what are we today?
- Who do we want to become?
- How do we get there?
• Employs practical systems to achieve your goals
• Commits to consistent execution because in consistency, success
emerges.

When implementing your strategic plan for success, it really comes down to three "Ds":

Decide what you want most to achieve
Determine the first step to getting what you want
Do the first thing that will start you moving toward your goal.

Using these nine keys, you can choose success and significance. But keep this in mind: success is not a matter of luck, not an accident of birth, not a reward for virtue. The most successful people I know are the ones who have something to do, somewhere to be and someone to love.

No one is responsible for your success or your joy. You must search for it and be in a continual state of earning it. To merely succeed is not an end in itself. You must use your success to impact other people...to impact the world...to Live Life from the Inside Out.

It all starts with the choices you make - they determine the person you will become.